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101.我们死后会发生一件奇怪的事情。味觉、触觉、嗅觉和声音都成为遥远的记忆，但我们的视野——啊，我们的视野扩大了，我们突然可以清晰地看到我们留下的世界。当然，如果生者愿意花时间去看的话，死者能看到的大部分东西也可以被生者看到。

当我们死后，奇怪的事情就会发生，我们的感官消失，味觉、触觉和听觉成为遥远的记忆，但我们的视野却打开了。我们突然可以清楚地看到我们身后的世界。当然，死人能看到的大部分世界，活人也能看清楚，只要他们愿意花时间去看。

102.当我回望我留下的世界时，一切对我来说都是那么清晰：美丽等待着被揭开，神秘渴望着被揭开。但人们很少停下来看看，他们只是继续前进。真的很遗憾，有太多可看的东西。

当我回头看身后的世界；我看得这么清楚。有如此多的美丽有待发现；还有如此多的谜团有待揭开；但很少有人停下来看一看。他们只是继续前进，这真是一种耻辱。有太多值得一看的东西！

103. 是的，我记得这个世界——每一个细节。我记得最清楚的是我当时是多么害怕。真是浪费啊。你看，生活在恐惧中根本就不是生活。我希望我能把这件事告诉那些我留下的人，但这有什么用吗？可能不会。我现在明白了——总会有人面对恐惧……也总会有人逃跑。

是的，我记得世界的每一个细节；我记得最清楚的是我当时是多么害怕；真是浪费啊。你看，生活在恐惧中并不是真正的生活！我希望我能把这个真理告诉生活在我身后世界的人们，但这有用吗？可能不会。我现在明白了，总会有人不得不面对自己的恐惧；总会有人选择逃避。

104.当我活着的时候，我保持着许多不同的身份——情人、妻子，最后是受害者。是的，标签对于生活来说很重要。它们决定了人们如何看待自己。

当我活着的时候，我保持着许多不同的身份：情人、妻子和最终的受害者。是的，这种标签对于活着的人来说非常重要，因为它们表明了人们如何看待自己。

105. 就其本质而言，人们总是在寻找入侵者。试图阻止外面的人进来。但总会有一些人强行闯入我们的生活，就像会有一些人被我们邀请进来一样。但最令人不安的是那些站在外面的人寻找……那些我们从未真正了解的人。

人类的本能是寻找入侵者；以防止其他人从外部闯入。但总有一些人强行闯入我们的生活；就像我们邀请进入我们圈子的人一样。但最麻烦的是；那些站在外面偷看里面的人；他们是你根本无法理解的人——！

生活突然充满了可能性，更不用说一些意想不到的惊喜了。生活突然充满了可能性，更不用说一些意想不到的惊喜了。

美丽等待着被揭开，神秘等待着被揭开。但人们很少停下来看看，他们只是继续前进。真的很遗憾，有太多可看的东西。

有太多的美丽有待发现，有太多的奥秘有待揭开。但人们很少停下来看看，他们只是继续走。真是可惜，有这么多的丰富性和多样性可供观赏。

我们都在寻找一个人，那个特别的人可以为我们提供生活中所缺少的东西。可以提供陪伴.或帮助.或安全的人。有时，如果我们非常努力地寻找，我们可以找到能为我们提供……所有这三者的人。是的，我们都在寻找一个人，如果找不到，就只能祈祷他们能找到我们。

我们总是在寻找那个特别的人，可以弥补我们生活中的缺陷。提供友谊、帮助或安全的人。有时，如果我们足够努力，我们甚至可能找到一个可以给我们所有这三样东西的人。是的，我们都在寻找，如果我们什么也没找到，我们只能希望他们找到我们。

我们一生中都做过一些令我们感到羞耻的事情。我们中的一些人爱上了错误的人。有些人已经放弃了合适的女人。有些人羞辱了父母，有些人辜负了孩子。是的，我们都犯过一些错误，这些错误削弱了我们和我们所爱的人的地位。但如果我们尝试从这些错误中吸取教训并成长，就会得到救赎。

我们都在生活中做过一些让我们感到羞耻的事情。我们中的一些人爱上了错误的男人，却错过了正确的女人。有的孩子让父母丢脸，有的父母让孩子失望。是的，我们都会犯错，让爱我们的人离开。但只要我们努力从这些错误中吸取教训并成长，就有恢复的机会。

每个人都会时不时地享受一场虚构的游戏。当然，我们玩的方式可能会有很大差异。有时，我们告诉自己工作不会干扰我们的家庭生活。有时我们想象某些关系比实际情况更有意义。有时我们会进行一场表演，好像是为了让自己相信我们的秘密并不那么可怕。是的，过家家游戏很简单。你首先要对自己撒谎。如果你能让别人相信这些谎言，你就赢了。

每个人有时都喜欢欺骗自己。当然，我们表达自己的方式都不同。有时我们告诉自己我们的工作不会影响我们的家庭，有时我们想象一段关系比实际更有意义。有时我们会隐藏它，好像这样可以安慰自己，我们的秘密其实并不那么可怕。是的，自欺欺人的游戏很简单。只要你说服自己，谎言就是真的。如果你能让全世界相信这是真的，那么你就是赢家。

这个世界充满了好父亲。我们如何认识他们？他们是那些被如此深切怀念的人，以至于他们的缺席一切都崩溃了。他们是在我们到达之前就已经爱我们的人了。当我们找不到回家的路时，他们就会来找我们。是的，世界上充满了好父亲。最好的人是那些让生活中的女性……感觉自己像个好母亲的人。

世界上到处都有好爸爸。我们如何识别它？我们非常想念他们，当他们不在身边时，我们就崩溃了；在我们的孩子出生之前，他们就爱我们；当我们迷失回家的路时，他们找到了我们。是的，世界各地都有好父亲。最好的父亲是那些让生活中的女性感觉自己是最好的母亲的人。

你看，生活在恐惧中根本就不是生活。总会有人面对恐惧……也总会有人逃跑。

充满恐惧的生活根本就不是生活。总有人面对恐惧，但也总有人选择逃避。

迟早，我们所有人都必须成为负责任的成年人并学会放弃我们想要的东西，这样我们才能选择做正确的事情。当然，一生的责任并不总是那么容易。随着时间的推移，这个负担可能变得过于沉重，让一些人无法承受。但我们仍然尝试做最好的事，做有益的事——但是为了我们所爱的人。

迟早，我们都会成为负责任的成年人，并学会为了正确的事情而放弃。当然，一生的责任并不总是那么简单。随着岁月的流逝，有些人变得不知所措。但是，我们仍然为了我们所爱的人竭尽全力。

我们都出于不同的原因尊敬英雄。有时是因为他们的大胆。有时是因为他们的勇敢。有时是为了他们的善良。但最重要的是，我们尊敬英雄，因为在某一时刻，我们都梦想着被拯救。当然，如果没有合适的英雄出现，有时我们就只能自救了。

我们都有各种各样的理由尊重英雄。有的因为英雄的勇气，有的因为勇敢，有的因为善良。但我们尊重英雄的大部分原因或多或少是因为我们都幻想着被拯救。当然，如果真正的英雄没有出现，有时我们就只能自救了。

世界上的每个人都需要一个可以依靠的人——无论是忠实的朋友、坚定的倡导者还是充满爱的家庭。但在生活中，有时我们以为会永远陪伴我们的人却离开了。如果发生这种情况，我们会不遗余力地把它们找回来，这真是令人惊讶。

每个人都需要—— 来依靠忠诚的朋友、坚定的拥护者或充满爱的家庭。但有时，我们以为会永远保护我们的人却离开了。如果真是这样，我们就得走很长的路才能把他们找回来。

是的，相机是用来捕捉图像的工具。但事实上，他们可以捕捉到更多的东西。他们可以揭露那些不应该再关心的男人隐藏的渴望。他们可以揭示最普通婚姻的非凡秘密。最令人惊奇的是，相机可以安静而清晰地向我们揭示我们的梦想——我们甚至不知道自己有过的梦想。

是的，相机是用来捕捉图像的。但事实上，它捕获的内容要多得多。它可以揭示一个你从未关心过的男人内心隐藏的欲望；它可以揭示普通婚姻的许多大秘密；最神奇的是，相机可以在不知不觉中告诉我们我们的梦想。梦想要有。

在一个充满黑暗的世界里，我们都需要某种光。无论是向我们展示如何赢回失去的东西的伟大火焰，还是旨在吓跑潜在怪物的强大灯塔……或者是一些向我们揭示过去隐藏的真相的发光灯泡……我们所有人都需要一些东西来帮助我们度过这个夜晚……即使这只是最微小的一线希望。

在黑暗的世界里，我们都需要光明。也许它是一束光，让我们知道如何找回失去的东西，也许它是一座灯塔，驱走潜伏的恶魔；也许是一些光照亮了我们过去隐藏的真相……我们都需要帮助。带着哪怕是最微弱的希望度过这一夜。

106：当我们还很年轻的时候就开始寻找力量。小时候，我们就被教导正义的力量战胜邪恶的力量。但随着年龄的增长，我们意识到一切都不是那么简单。邪恶的痕迹总是存在的。

对权力的追求从我们年轻的时候就开始了。小时候，我们就被教导“恶不能战胜善”。但随着年龄的增长，我们意识到没有一件事是这样的。邪恶就像影子一样跟着你。

107：竞争，对不同的人来说意味着不同的事情。但无论是友好较量，还是殊死搏斗。最终的结果是一样的。会有赢家，也会有输家，当然，诀窍是，要知道要打哪些仗，你看，没有任何胜利是没有代价的。

竞争因人而异，但无论是友谊赛还是生死决斗，结果总是一样的——有赢家，有输家。但关键是要知道参加什么样的比赛。要知道，胜利是有代价的。

108：有一本广为人知的书告诉我们每个人都是罪人当然，并不是每个人都会对自己所做的坏事感到内疚。相比之下，有些人承担的责任超过了自己应承担的责任，有些人则用小小的善意来安抚自己的良心。或者告诉自己他们的罪孽是正当的。最后还有一些人只是发誓下次会做得更好。并祈求宽恕，有时祈祷会得到回应。

一本流行的书告诉我们“每个人都是罪人”。当然，并不是所有读过这本书的人都会对自己所做的坏事感到内疚。相反，有些人认为他们应得的比他们应得的更多；其他人则用小小的善举来安抚自己的良心；或者告诉自己他们的罪行是正当的；最后，有些人发誓下次会做得更好，然后祈求原谅。有时，他们的祈祷会得到回应。

109人是复杂的生物。一方面能够做出伟大的慈善行为，另一方面能够进行最卑鄙的背叛，这是我们所有人内心持续不断的战斗，因为我们本性中更好的天使，以及我们的诱惑。罪人恶魔，有时抵御黑暗的唯一方法，就是分享慈悲之光。

人类是复杂的动物。一方面他表现出善良，另一方面却阴险地背叛。我们总是在本性的善良和内心的恶魔之间挣扎。有时，抵御黑暗的唯一方法就是发出慈悲之光。

110：信任是一个脆弱的东西，一旦赢得，它给我们带来巨大的自由，但一旦失去信任，就不可能恢复，当然，事实是我们永远不知道我们可以信任谁，那些我们最亲近的人可以背叛我们，可以有陌生人来拯救我们，最后，大多数人决定只相信自己，这确实是最简单的方法，可以避免被烧伤。

信任确实是一个脆弱的东西，一旦赢得，它就为我们提供了巨大的空间。而一旦失去，就无法挽回。当然，现实是我们永远不知道我们可以信任谁：最亲近的人可能会背叛我们，而陌生人却可以帮助我们。最终，大多数人决定只能相信自己。这确实是防止烧伤的简单方法。

111：我们都在寻找一个人，一个为我们提供生命中缺失的特殊的人，一个可以提供同情心、抵抗力或安全感的人，有时，如果我们非常努力地寻找，我们可以找到一个可以提供帮助的人。我们自己，以及所有三个人，是的，所有人都在寻找某人，如果我们找不到他们，我们只能祈祷，他们会找到我们。

我们都在寻找一个可以带来我们生活中缺失的东西的人：一个可以提供陪伴、帮助或安全的人。有时，如果我们努力寻找，我们可以找到能够提供这三者的人。是的，我们都在寻找一个人，如果找不到，那就只能祈祷他们能找到我们。

112：死亡是不可避免的，这是我们每个人出生时就做出的承诺，但在这个承诺之前

pt, we all hope something will happen to us, whether the thrill of romance, the joy of raising a family, or the anguish of great loss, we all hope experience something that makes our lives meaningful, but the sad fact is not all lives have meaning ,some people spend their time on this planet just sitting on the sidelines, waiting for something to happen to them, before it’s too late. 　　死亡无法逃避，那是上帝在我们一出生时就许下的诺言。但是在诺言兑现之前，我们都希望会有些事情发生，不管那是浪漫激情、养育孩子的快乐还是巨大损失的悲痛，我们都希望经历一些让生命有意义的事情。但不幸的是，并不是所有的生命都有意义，一些人只是天天坐视旁观，等待着一些事情发生到他们身上――在还没太晚之前。 　　113： Sooner or later , the time comes when we all must become responsible adults, and learn to give up what we want , So we can choose to do what is right, of course , a life time of responsibility , is not always easy , and as the years go on, it’s a burden that can become too heavy to bear , but still we try to do what is best, what is good, not only for ourselves, but for those we love, yes ,sooner or later , we must all become responsible adults, no one knows this better than the young man. 　　或早或晚，总有一天，我们都必须成为负责任的成年人。学会放弃我们想要的东西，那我们就能选择去做正确的事情。当然，要做到一辈子负责任，不总是那么简单的。随着时间的流逝，对某些人而言，那将成为不能承受之重负。但我们依然试图做得最好，使它有利于，不仅仅自己，还有我们所爱的人。是啊，或早或晚，我们都必须成为负责任的成年人。没有人比年轻人更懂得这一点。 　　114： It's impossible to grasp just how powerful love is , it can sustain us through trying times, or motivate us to make extraordinary sacrifices ,it can force decent man to commit darkest deeds, or compel ordinary woman to search for hidden truths, and long after we are gone, love remains , burned into our memories, we all search for love, but some of us , after we’ve found it ,wish we hadn't. 　　我们不能理解爱是如何的强大，它能支持我们度过困难时光，或激励我们作出非同寻常的牺牲。它能使最正派的男人做出最黑暗的事，或促使普通的女人寻找隐藏的真相。在我们过世很久以后，爱依然存在，深深刻在我们的记忆中。我们都在寻找爱，但我们中的一些人，在我们找到爱之后，宁愿希望没找到过。 　　115： Yes , each new day in suburbia brings with it a new set of lies. The worst are the ones we tell ourselves before we fall asleep , we whisper them in the dark to ourselves, telling ourselves we are happy , or that he is happy , that we are change , or that he will change his mind, we persuade ourselves we can live with our sins, or that we can live without him , yes each night before we fall asleep , we lie to ourselves , the desperate ,desperate hope , that come morning ,it will all be true 　　是的，新的一天的到来，总是伴随着一系列的谎言，其中最糟糕的是那些自己用来骗自己的。在入睡之前，我们告诉自己，我们很快乐，或者他很快乐；我们可以改变，或者他会改变。我们说服自己带着罪恶继续生活，或者我们没有他也一样可以生活。是的，每天晚上在我们入睡之前，我们对自己说谎，近乎绝望、绝望地希望着。 　　116： Yes ,everyone love the scandal , no matter how big of small ,after all , what could be more entertaining . that watching the downfall of the high and mighty ? what could be more amusing ,than the public exposure of hypocritical sinners. Yes, everyone loves a scandal, and if for some reason ,you are not enjoying the latest one…well ,the next one is always around the corner. 　　每个人都喜欢丑闻，或大或小。毕竟，有什么比看到别人从高峰跌倒低谷更令人愉快呢？有什么能比丑陋的隐私被公布于众更另人感到有趣呢？是的，每个人都喜欢丑闻，如果因为某些原因你不喜欢最新的丑闻，没关系，下一个很快就要来临。 　　117： We all honor heroes for different reasons , sometimes for their daring , sometimes for their bravery , sometimes for their goodness, but mostly we honor heroes , because at one point or another, we all dream to be rescued ,of course if the right heroes doesn’t come along , sometimes we just have to rescue by ourselves . 　　我们都因为各种各样的原因崇拜英雄：有时是因为他们敢于冒险，有时是因为他们的勇敢，有时是因为他们的善良。但是绝大部分，是因为，或多或少，我们都梦想着被拯救。当然，如果我们盼望着的英雄没有出现，有时候，我们就必须自我拯救了。 　　118： Children come into the world with its own agendas, some to brighten our days , some to test our patience , some to give up purpose , some to take care of us , yes when they come , children change everything. Especially when they’re not invited. 　　孩子们带着他们的使命来到人世间：有些孩子来点亮我们的生活，有些孩子来考验我们的耐心，有些孩子让我们充满目标，有些孩子则是来照顾我们自己。是的，当孩子来了之后他们改变了一切，尤其当他们是不请自来的时候。 　　119： Yes, life is a journey, one that is much better traveled with a companion by our side. Of course, that companion can be just about anyonea neighbor on the other side of the street...or the man on the other side of the bed. The companion can be a mother with good intentions...or a child who's up to no good. Still, despite our best intentions, some of us will lose our companions along the way. And then the journey becomes unbearable. You see, Human beings are designed for many things, But loneliness isn't one of them. 　　是的，生命如同旅程，最好能与人结伴同行。当然，不同的人都会成为同伴：住在街道对面的邻居，或者是睡在枕边的人，望子成龙的母亲，又或是捣蛋的小孩。但是，尽管我们有着最好的愿望，有些人会在旅途中失去同伴，接着旅程就会令人无法忍受。你看，人类能应对许多问题，但孤独并不在其中。 　　120： Spring comes every year to Wisteria Lane. But not everyone remembers to stop and smell the flowers. Some are too busy worrying about the future or mistakes they've made in the past. Others are preoccupied with not getting caught or thinking of ways to catch someone else. Still, there will always be a few who remember to take a moment and appreciate what Spring has given them, just as there will always be those who prefer to sit in the dark, brooding over everything they've lost. 　　每年，春天都会来到韦斯特瑞街。但并不是每一个人都会停下脚步去欣赏风景。有的人总是为未来或过去犯下的错误而担忧，有的人老在想着逃脱或是追捕。但有人还是依然会记得花些时间去好好欣赏春天给他们带来的礼物。正如还有一些人，宁愿坐在黑暗中，埋怨着他们的所失。 　　121： The vow is simple, really. Those who take it promise "to stay together, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to honor and to cherish, for saking all others until death do us part." Yes, the vow is simple. Finding someone worthy of such a promise is the hard part. But if we can, that's when we begin to live happily ever after. 　　发誓很简单，真的。人们许下诺言：“无论好与坏，贫与富，病痛与健康，不离不弃，相敬相爱，直到永远。”是的，誓言是简单，找到值得为其许下这个誓言的人才是困难的。但要是我们找到了，那就是从此幸福地生活在一起的故事的开始。 　　122： Nothing is forever. And the time comes when we all must say goodbye to the world we know. Goodbye to everything we had taken for granted. Goodbye to those we thought would never abandon us. And when these changes finally do occur, when the familiar has departed and the unfamiliar has taken its place, all any of us can really do is to say hello and welcome. 　　没有什么事情是永恒的。当时间到来，我们不得不挥手告别熟悉的世界。告别我们深知的一切，告别认为会永不抛弃我们的人。当这些改变最终发生的时候，当熟悉远离而陌生来临的时候，我们所能做到的，就是说声“你好，欢迎”。 　　2 送鲜花 | 果断收藏 　　123-124： It's an odd thing to look back on the world , to watch those I left behind. Each, in her own way , so brave so determined, and so very desperate , desperate to venture out, but afraid of what she’ll miss when she goes. Desperate to get everything she wants, even when she is not exactly sure of what that is, desperate for life to be perfect again, Although she realizes their never really was, desperate for a better future, if she can find a way to escape her past , I am not only watch, I cheer them on , these amazing women, I hope so much that they’ll find what they’re looking for , but I know not all them will. Sadly… that’s just not the way life works, not everyone gets a happy ending. 　　回过头来注视这个世界，注视我身后的这些人，让我觉得很奇怪：每个人都是那么勇敢坚定，但又如此地不顾一切。不顾一切地想要出走，但又舍不得因为出走而失去的代价；不顾一切想要得到所有想要的东西，即使他自己还不知道到底要什么；不顾一切地想要生活重归完美，尽管他意识到生活从未完美过；不顾一切地想要一个更美好的未来，欧办法能摆脱他的过去。我不只是注视，还为这些了不起的女人们加油，我真心希望她们能够心想事成。但我知道，她们中不是每个人都称心如意。可惜的是，生活就是这样，不是每个故事都有幸福的结局。 　　We all honor heroes for different reasons. Sometimes for their daring. Sometimes for their bravery. Sometimes for their goodness. But mostly we honor heroes, because at one point or another, we all dream of being rescued. Of course, if the right hero doesn't come along, sometimes we just have to rescue ourselves. 我们都有各种理由去尊敬英雄。有的是因为英雄的胆识，有的是因为勇气，有的是善良。但我们尊敬英雄的大部分原因，多多少少是因为我们都幻想着被拯救。当然，要是真正的英雄没有出现，有时，我们就只有自我拯救了。 　　Control. It's extraordinary the tactics people employ to obtain it. Some rely on deception, while others engage in outright trickery. Then there are those who resort to extorsion. Why do we fight so hard for control? Because we knowTo lose it is to put our fate in the hands of others. And what could be more dangerous? 　　控制，人们为了得到它真实无所不为。有些人靠诡计，有些人则用正直的把戏，还有一些人则屈服于勒索，我们为什么这么拼命的想得到控制呢？因为我们知道，一旦失去了控制，我们的命运就掌握在别人的手里了，还有什么比这更危险的呢？ 　　203、 Everyone enjoys a game of make-believe now and then. Of course, the ways in which we play can vary greatly. Sometimes we tell ourselves work won't interfere with our family life.. Sometimes, we imagine certain relationships to be more meaningful than they really are. Occasionally, we put on a show, as if to convince ourselves our secrets aren't really all that terrible. Yes, the game of make-believe is a simple one. You start by lying to yourself... And if you can get others to believe those lies, you win. 　　我们总是幻想某段关系，比实际的更加美好和意义深远，有时我们则掩饰不安，像是一切总在预料之中，并不那么可怕。自欺欺人的游戏，人们乐在其中。只要你说服自己谎言是真的，你就可以让全世界都相信这是真的，然后得到想要的一切。 　　204、 The world is filled with good fathers. How do we recognize them? They're the ones who are missed so terribly that everything falls apart in their absence. They're the ones who love us long before we've even arrived. They're the ones who come looking for us when we can't find our way home. Yes, the world is filled with good fathers. And the best are the ones who make the women in their lives...feel like good mothers. 　　世间好爸爸到处都有。我们又如何辨认呢？他们不在身边时我们会如此地想念到要崩溃，他们在孩子还未出生前就深爱着我们，他们在我们迷失回家的路时找到我们。是的，世间处处有好父亲。而最好的父亲就是那些能让生命中的女人觉得自己是最好的母亲的人。 　　205、 Everyone in the world needs someone they can depend on--be they faithful friends, determined advocates or a loving family. But occasionally in life, the people who we thought would always be there for us, leave. And if that happens, it's amazing the lengths we'll go to to get them back. 　　每一个人都需要依靠——忠实的朋友，坚定的拥护者或者是充满爱意的家庭。但有时候，我们以为会永远守护着我们的人，离去了。真是那样的话，我们就得为找回他们而走上漫漫长路。 　　207、 Yes, cameras are tools designed to capture images. But in truth, they can capture so much more. They can uncover hidden longing of men who should no longer care. They can reveal the extraordinary secrets of the most ordinary marriages. Most amazing of all, cameras can quietly and clearly reveal to us our dreams--dreams we didn't even know we had. 　　是的，照相机是用来捕捉画面的。但事实上，它能捕捉到更多东西。它能揭示一个你从不在意的男人心底隐藏的渴望；它能泄露许多普通婚姻的天大的秘密；最惊人的是，相机可以在不知觉中告知我们自己的梦想——我们从未意识到已拥有的梦想。 　　208、 In a world filled with darkness, we all need some kind of light. Whether it's a great flame that shows us how to win back what we've lost, or a powerful beacon intended to scare away potential monsters...or a few glowing bulbs that reveal to us the hidden truth of ur past...we all need something to help us get through the night...even if it's just the tiniest glimmer of hope. 　　在一个黑暗的世界里，我们都需要光明。也许是一束让我们知道怎么挽回失去的东西的光明，也许是一座能驱走潜伏着的恶魔的灯塔；又也许是几个照亮了掩蔽着的我们过去的真相……我们都需要帮助来渡过黑夜，哪怕只是最微弱的希望的光芒。 　　209、 It's not always that easy to distinguish the good guys from the bad guys. Sinners can surprise you. And the same is true for saints. Why do we try to define people as simply good or simply evil? Because no one wants to admit that compassion and cruelty can live side by side in one heart. And that anyone is capable of anything. 　　我们并不总是能够很清楚的分辨好人和坏人的，有罪的人会让你大吃一惊，圣人也会。为什么我们要把人简单的分成纯粹的好人和纯粹的魔鬼呢？因为没有人会愿意承认残暴和仁慈会存在于同一个身体里……也不会承认自己会干出任何事情 　　210、 The stories are as old as time itself. The prodigal son who returns home to the father who forgives him. The jealous wife who tricks the husband who trusts her. The desperate mother who risks everything for the child who needs her. And the faithless husband who hurts the wife who loves him so deeply. Why do we listen again and again? Because these are the stories of family, and once we look past the fighting, pain and the resentment? We occasionally like to remind ourselves...there is absolutely nothing more important. 　　故事依旧是那个古老的故事。浪子回头金不换，善父宽容抛前嫌，欲妻讹夫骗信任，慈母护子为哪般，为父不忠留妻绝，为何故事一遍又一遍，只因事关一家人。蓦然回首，须自省，家为首。 　　211、 The act itself never varies. But each kiss carries with it a meaning all its own. It can convey a husband's eternal devotion. Or a wife's enormous regret. It can symbolize a mother's growing concern. Or a lover's growing passion. But whatever its meaning, each kiss reflects a basic human need. The need to connect to another human being. This desire is so strong it's always amazing when some people don’t understand it." 　　动作是千篇一律的，但每个吻带着各自的含义。他能传达丈夫永久的专一，或妻子莫大的懊悔，它象征母亲日益剧增的担心，或情人的无限的激情。但他无论象征着什么，每个吻，反映了人们最基本的一种需求，与另一个心灵的沟通，这种需求如此强烈，他令人惊讶不已，特别是在哪些，不理解他的人眼里。 　　212、 Illness can take on many forms. Those of the body are easy to treat. Much more difficult are the hidden maladies that fester in our hearts. The secret addictions that consume our souls. And the diseases we deny which affect our judgment. To survive we need to find that special someone who can heal us. But we can never predict who have the cure for what ails us. Or when they'll show up. 　　疾病有很多种表现方式，身体上的容易治疗，困难的是隐藏在心灵深处的伤痛，不为人知的迷恋让我们的灵魂中毒，讳疾忌医会困惑我们的判断，为了继续下去，我们得找到一位能帮助我们痊愈的人。但我们永远也不会料到，谁会有我们的解药，或者什么时候他们会出现。 　　213、 Everyone understands the nature of war. We also understand that victory depends on the cards that we have been dealt. Some, when faced with a bloody battle, simply give in. But for some, surrender is unacceptable. Even though they know it will be a fight.... to the death. 　　所有人都明白战争规律，我们也明白胜利得靠我们打出去的牌，有些人面对一场血战的时候会草草放弃，但对有些人，投降是不可接受的，即使它们知道将会是一场……血战 　　214、 The world is filled with unlikely friendships. How do they begin? With one person desperately in need and another willing to lend a helping hand. When such kindness is offered, we're finally able to see the worth of those we had previously written off. And before we know it, a bond has formed, regardless of whether others can understand it. Yes, unlikely friendships start up every day. No one understands this more than the lonely. In fact, it's what they count on. 　　这个世界充满了不可能发生而发生的友情，要问他们是怎样开始的？一个有着迫切需要，而另一个愿意伸出援助之手，当有了这样的仁慈，我们最终得以见到我之前所作的一切的价值，在我们知道以前，一条联系彼此的纽带就已形成，不管别人是否能理解，确实如此，意外的情谊天天都会发生，每人能理解他们比孤独更多。事实上，这是他们所依赖的。 　　215、Now and then, we all need a little help, so we ask for small favors. But it's always best to be wary of those eager to come to our rescue. Because even the smallest of favors carries a price tag. Yes, everyone has an agenda. No matter what they may tell us. And in those rare instances where there is no ulterior motive. We're so taken aback that we may fail to recognize the truth that a loving friend has just done us an enormous favor." 　　时不时地，我们都需要一些帮助。于是我们向他人索取一点点关切，不过对那些急来的援助，最好带着一颗机警之心。因为哪怕是最小的一点恩惠，也承担了代价，没错，每个人都有自己的打算，无论他们对我们怎么说，然后当在少有的情况下，人们抛开隐含的动机时，我们却惊诧自己没有及时发觉，一位忠实的朋友又帮了我们的大忙。 　　217、 At that precise moment, as Dr. Hanson Mills was cutting yet another umbilical cord, other ties were being severed all over town. Like the one between a child and the mother who didn't want him to grow up so quickly, or the one between a case of fine wine and the housewife who hadn't wanted to admit that she had a problem, or the one between a woman and the boyfriend who couldn't forgive her betrayal. The choice to separate from what we love is painful. The only thing worse is when someone we've trusted makes the choice for us. 　　与此同时，在hanson mills医生剪脐带的时候起他的联系也被切断。母子之间的亲情联系，一个不想孩子就这么快长大的慈母，或是一箱好酒和一位主妇之间的联系，一位不愿意承认自己有问题的家庭主妇，或是一个女人和男友之间的联系，一个无法原谅女友背叛的男友，选择和我们的所爱分离是痛苦的，唯一更糟糕的是，有时候我们信任的人替我们做了这样的选择。 　　218、 Temptation comes to all of us. Whether or not we succumb depends on our ability to recognize its disguise. Sometimes it arrives in the form of an old flame, flickering back to life. Or a new friend who could end up being so much more. Or a young child who awakens feelings we didn't know we had. And so we give in to temptation, all the while knowing come morning, we'll have to suffer the consequences. 　　我们每个人都面临着诱惑，我们是否向它屈服取决于我们识别他伪装的能力，有时它以一团昔日的火焰出现，重回生活中闪耀，或是一个新朋友，最后却不止是一个朋友，或一个年轻的孩子，唤醒了我们不曾知道我们拥有的感觉。当我们向诱惑妥协时，第二天早上醒来就会知道，我们将不得不承受以此带来的后果。 　　219、 We've all done something in our lives we're ashamed of. Some of us have fallen for the wrong man. Some have let go of the right woman. There are those who have humiliated their parents and those who have failed their children. Yes, we've all made mistakes that diminish us and those we love. But there is redemption if we try to learn from those mistakes and grow. 　　在生活中，我们都做过一些我们为之惭愧的事情。我们中一些人爱上了错误的人，一些人放走了合适的女人，有使他们的父母丢脸的孩子，有使他们的孩子失望的父母。是的，我们都犯过错误，使我们爱的人离我们而去，但是仍然有挽回的机会，如果我们试着从这些错误中汲取经验教训，使自己成熟起来。 　　220、 There is a prayer intended to give strength to people faced with circumstances they don’t want to accept. The power of the prayer comes from it's insight into human nature. Because so many of us rage against the hand that life has dealt us. Because so many of us are cowardly. And afraid to stand up for what is right. Because so many of us give into despair when faced with an impossible choice. The good news for those who utter these words is that God will hear you and answer your prayer. The bad news is that sometimes the answer is no. 　　祷文意图要赐给人们以力量，当面对他们不想接受的情况的时候。祷文的力量来自他对人类本性的深刻洞察力，因为我们中很多人对与我们作对的命运之手唯有愤怒，因为我们很多人懦夫一般的没有勇气为正义拍案而起，因为我们中的很多人对绝望妥协，当面对一个不可能的选择的时候。好消息是，对那些把那些话说出口的人，那就是上帝会听到你的祈祷并给你答复，但坏消息时，有时答复可能是否定的。 　　221、 When the truth is ugly, people try to keep it hidden, because they know if revealed, the damage it will do. So they conceal it within sturdy walls or they place it behind closed doors or they obscure it with clever disguises but truth, no matter how ugly, always emerges. And someone we care about always ends up getting hurt. And someone else will revel in their pain and that's the ugliest truth of all. 　　当真相是丑陋的时候，人们尝试将他们隐藏起来。因为人们知道，真相泄露所带来的伤害是多么严重，所以人们用严实的高墙将其藏匿起来，或者将其关闭在紧缩的门后，或者用聪明的伪装使其变得模糊。但是真相，无论多么丑陋总会浮出水面。那些我们关心的人最终还是会受到伤害，另外一些人会因为别人的伤痛而非常快乐，这才是世界上最丑陋的事实。 　　222、 It's a shocking moment for each of us. That moment we realize we are all alone in this world. The family we take for granted could one day abandon us. The husband we trust so implicitly might betray us. The daughter we love so deeply perhaps won’t return to us. And then we could end up all by ourselves. Of course, some see great value in going it alone. For example.. 　　对我们每个人来说，这都是非常震惊的时刻，令我们意识到我们在这个世界上是寂寞的。我们认为理所应当的家人会突然遗弃我们，我们那么深信的丈夫也许会背叛我们，我们深爱着的女儿也许再也不会回到我们身边，我们也许只能孤独终老。当然，也有人喜欢独身一人，例如…… 　　1 送鲜花 | 果断收藏 　　223-224、 This is the street where I used to live, and these were the people with whom I shared my life. I met them the day they moved in. And I saw what they brought with them beautiful dreams for the future. And quiet hopes for a better life, not just for themselves, but for their children, too. If I could, would I tell them what lies ahead? Would I warn them of the sorrow and betrayal that lie in store? No. From where I stand now, I see enough of the road to understand how it must be traveled. The trick is to keep moving forward, to let go of the fear and the regret that slow us down and keep us from enjoying a journey that will be over too soon. Yes, there will be unexpected bends in the road, shocking surprises we didn't see coming, but that's really the point, don't ya think? 　　这就是我曾经生活过的街道，这曾是我与其分享生活的人们。从他们搬来的那一天起我们就认识了。我看到了他们所带来的对未来的美好憧憬，对更好的生活的向往，不仅仅为他们自己，还有为了他们的孩子。如果可能的话，我应该告诉他们在前方等待着的是什么吗？我应该警告他们将至的悲伤与背叛吗？不。在我所处于的位置，我自然能明白路应该如何走。秘诀就是一直向前行，放下恐惧和遗憾，因为它们会让我们放慢脚步，阻碍我们享受这转瞬即逝的旅程。是的，前方有无法预料的转折，令人措手不及的惊讶，但是，生活的意思不正在于此吗？ 　　Control. It's extraordinary the tactics people employ to obtain it. Some rely on deception, while others engage in outright trickery. Then there are those who resort to extorsion. Why do we fight so hard for control? Because we knowTo lose it is to put our fate in the hands of others. And what could be more dangerous? 　　控制，人们为了得到它真实无所不为。有些人靠诡计，有些人则用正直的把戏，还有一些人则屈服于勒索，我们为什么这么拼命的想得到控制呢？因为我们知道，一旦失去了控制，我们的命运就掌握在别人的手里了，还有什么比这更危险的呢？ 　　203、 Everyone enjoys a game of make-believe now and then. Of course, the ways in which we play can vary greatly. Sometimes we tell ourselves work won't interfere with our family life.. Sometimes, we imagine certain relationships to be more meaningful than they really are. Occasionally, we put on a show, as if to convince ourselves our secrets aren't really all that terrible. Yes, the game of make-believe is a simple one. You start by lying to yourself... And if you can get others to believe those lies, you win. 　　我们总是幻想某段关系，比实际的更加美好和意义深远，有时我们则掩饰不安，像是一切总在预料之中，并不那么可怕。自欺欺人的游戏，人们乐在其中。只要你说服自己谎言是真的，你就可以让全世界都相信这是真的，然后得到想要的一切。 　　204、 The world is filled with good fathers. How do we recognize them? They're the ones who are missed so terribly that everything falls apart in their absence. They're the ones who love us long before we've even arrived. They're the ones who come looking for us when we can't find our way home. Yes, the world is filled with good fathers. And the best are the ones who make the women in their lives...feel like good mothers. 　　世间好爸爸到处都有。我们又如何辨认呢？他们不在身边时我们会如此地想念到要崩溃，他们在孩子还未出生前就深爱着我们，他们在我们迷失回家的路时找到我们。是的，世间处处有好父亲。而最好的父亲就是那些能让生命中的女人觉得自己是最好的母亲的人。 　　205、 Everyone in the world needs someone they can depend on--be they faithful friends, determined advocates or a loving family. But occasionally in life, the people who we thought would always be there for us, leave. And if that happens, it's amazing the lengths we'll go to to get them back. 　　每一个人都需要依靠——忠实的朋友，坚定的拥护者或者是充满爱意的家庭。但有时候，我们以为会永远守护着我们的人，离去了。真是那样的话，我们就得为找回他们而走上漫漫长路。 　　207、 Yes, cameras are tools designed to capture images. But in truth, they can capture so much more. They can uncover hidden longing of men who should no longer care. They can reveal the extraordinary secrets of the most ordinary marriages. Most amazing of all, cameras can quietly and clearly reveal to us our dreams--dreams we didn't even know we had. 　　是的，照相机是用来捕捉画面的。但事实上，它能捕捉到更多东西。它能揭示一个你从不在意的男人心底隐藏的渴望；它能泄露许多普通婚姻的天大的秘密；最惊人的是，相机可以在不知觉中告知我们自己的梦想——我们从未意识到已拥有的梦想。 　　208、 In a world filled with darkness, we all need some kind of light. Whether it's a great flame that shows us how to win back what we've lost, or a powerful beacon intended to scare away potential monsters...or a few glowing bulbs that reveal to us the hidden truth of ur past...we all need something to help us get through the night...even if it's just the tiniest glimmer of hope. 　　在一个黑暗的世界里，我们都需要光明。也许是一束让我们知道怎么挽回失去的东西的光明，也许是一座能驱走潜伏着的恶魔的灯塔；又也许是几个照亮了掩蔽着的我们过去的真相……我们都需要帮助来渡过黑夜，哪怕只是最微弱的希望的光芒。 　　209、 It's not always that easy to distinguish the good guys from the bad guys. Sinners can surprise you. And the same is true for saints. Why do we try to define people as simply good or simply evil? Because no one wants to admit that compassion and cruelty can live side by side in one heart. And that anyone is capable of anything. 　　我们并不总是能够很清楚的分辨好人和坏人的，有罪的人会让你大吃一惊，圣人也会。为什么我们要把人简单的分成纯粹的好人和纯粹的魔鬼呢？因为没有人会愿意承认残暴和仁慈会存在于同一个身体里……也不会承认自己会干出任何事情 　　210、 The stories are as old as time itself. The prodigal son who returns home to the father who forgives him. The jealous wife who tricks the husband who trusts her. The desperate mother who risks everything for the child who needs her. And the faithless husband who hurts the wife who loves him so deeply. Why do we listen again and again? Because these are the stories of family, and once we look past the fighting, pain and the resentment? We occasionally like to remind ourselves...there is absolutely nothing more important. 　　故事依旧是那个古老的故事。浪子回头金不换，善父宽容抛前嫌，欲妻讹夫骗信任，慈母护子为哪般，为父不忠留妻绝，为何故事一遍又一遍，只因事关一家人。蓦然回首，须自省，家为首。 　　211、 The act itself never varies. But each kiss carries with it a meaning all its own. It can convey a husband's eternal devotion. Or a wife's enormous regret. It can symbolize a mother's growing concern. Or a lover's growing passion. But whatever its meaning, each kiss reflects a basic human need. The need to connect to another human being. This desire is so strong it's always amazing when some people don’t understand it." 　　动作是千篇一律的，但每个吻带着各自的含义。他能传达丈夫永久的专一，或妻子莫大的懊悔，它象征母亲日益剧增的担心，或情人的无限的激情。但他无论象征着什么，每个吻，反映了人们最基本的一种需求，与另一个心灵的沟通，这种需求如此强烈，他令人惊讶不已，特别是在哪些，不理解他的人眼里。 　　212、 Illness can take on many forms. Those of the body are easy to treat. Much more difficult are the hidden maladies that fester in our hearts. The secret addictions that consume our souls. And the diseases we deny which affect our judgment. To survive we need to find that special someone who can heal us. But we can never predict who have the cure for what ails us. Or when they'll show up. 　　疾病有很多种表现方式，身体上的容易治疗，困难的是隐藏在心灵深处的伤痛，不为人知的迷恋让我们的灵魂中毒，讳疾忌医会困惑我们的判断，为了继续下去，我们得找到一位能帮助我们痊愈的人。但我们永远也不会料到，谁会有我们的解药，或者什么时候他们会出现。 　　213、 Everyone understands the nature of war. We also understand that victory depends on the cards that we have been dealt. Some, when faced with a bloody battle, simply give in. But for some, surrender is unacceptable. Even though they know it will be a fight.... to the death. 　　所有人都明白战争规律，我们也明白胜利得靠我们打出去的牌，有些人面对一场血战的时候会草草放弃，但对有些人，投降是不可接受的，即使它们知道将会是一场……血战 　　214、 The world is filled with unlikely friendships. How do they begin? With one person desperately in need and another willing to lend a helping hand. When such kindness is offered, we're finally able to see the worth of those we had previously written off. And before we know it, a bond has formed, regardless of whether others can understand it. Yes, unlikely friendships start up every day. No one understands this more than the lonely. In fact, it's what they count on. 　　这个世界充满了不可能发生而发生的友情，要问他们是怎样开始的？一个有着迫切需要，而另一个愿意伸出援助之手，当有了这样的仁慈，我们最终得以见到我之前所作的一切的价值，在我们知道以前，一条联系彼此的纽带就已形成，不管别人是否能理解，确实如此，意外的情谊天天都会发生，每人能理解他们比孤独更多。事实上，这是他们所依赖的。 　　215、 Now and then, we all need a little help, so we ask for small favors. But it's always best to be wary of those eager to come to our rescue. Because even the smallest of favors carries a price tag. Yes, everyone has an agenda. No matter what they may tell us. And in those rare instances where there is no ulterior motive. We're so taken aback that we may fail to recognize the truth that a loving friend has just done us an enormous favor." 　　时不时地，我们都需要一些帮助。于是我们向他人索取一点点关切，不过对那些急来的援助，最好带着一颗机警之心。因为哪怕是最小的一点恩惠，也承担了代价，没错，每个人都有自己的打算，无论他们对我们怎么说，然后当在少有的情况下，人们抛开隐含的动机时，我们却惊诧自己没有及时发觉，一位忠实的朋友又帮了我们的大忙。 　　217、 At that precise moment, as Dr. Hanson Mills was cutting yet another umbilical cord, other ties were being severed all over town. Like the one between a child and the mother who didn't want him to grow up so quickly, or the one between a case of fine wine and the housewife who hadn't wanted to admit that she had a problem, or the one between a woman and the boyfriend who couldn't forgive her betrayal. The choice to separate from what we love is painful. The only thing worse is when someone we've trusted makes the choice for us. 　　与此同时，在hanson mills医生剪脐带的时候起他的联系也被切断。母子之间的亲情联系，一个不想孩子就这么快长大的慈母，或是一箱好酒和一位主妇之间的联系，一位不愿意承认自己有问题的家庭主妇，或是一个女人和男友之间的联系，一个无法原谅女友背叛的男友，选择和我们的所爱分离是痛苦的，唯一更糟糕的是，有时候我们信任的人替我们做了这样的选择。 　　218、 Temptation comes to all of us. Whether or not we succumb depends on our ability to recognize its disguise. Sometimes it arrives in the form of an old flame, flickering back to life. Or a new friend who could end up being so much more. Or a young child who awakens feelings we didn't know we had. And so we give in to temptation, all the while knowing come morning, we'll have to suffer the consequences. 　　我们每个人都面临着诱惑，我们是否向它屈服取决于我们识别他伪装的能力，有时它以一团昔日的火焰出现，重回生活中闪耀，或是一个新朋友，最后却不止是一个朋友，或一个年轻的孩子，唤醒了我们不曾知道我们拥有的感觉。当我们向诱惑妥协时，第二天早上醒来就会知道，我们将不得不承受以此带来的后果。 　　219、 We've all done something in our lives we're ashamed of. Some of us have fallen for the wrong man. Some have let go of the right woman. There are those who have humiliated their parents and those who have failed their children. Yes, we've all made mistakes that diminish us and those we love. But there is redemption if we try to learn from those mistakes and grow. 　　在生活中，我们都做过一些我们为之惭愧的事情。我们中一些人爱上了错误的人，一些人放走了合适的女人，有使他们的父母丢脸的孩子，有使他们的孩子失望的父母。是的，我们都犯过错误，使我们爱的人离我们而去，但是仍然有挽回的机会，如果我们试着从这些错误中汲取经验教训，使自己成熟起来。 　　220、 There is a prayer intended to give strength to people faced with circumstances they don’t want to accept. The power of the prayer comes from it's insight into human nature. Because so many of us rage against the hand that life has dealt us. Because so many of us are cowardly. And afraid to stand up for what is right. Because so many of us give into despair when faced with an impossible choice. The good news for those who utter these words is that God will hear you and answer your prayer. The bad news is that sometimes the answer is no. 　　祷文意图要赐给人们以力量，当面对他们不想接受的情况的时候。祷文的力量来自他对人类本性的深刻洞察力，因为我们中很多人对与我们作对的命运之手唯有愤怒，因为我们很多人懦夫一般的没有勇气为正义拍案而起，因为我们中的很多人对绝望妥协，当面对一个不可能的选择的时候。好消息是，对那些把那些话说出口的人，那就是上帝会听到你的祈祷并给你答复，但坏消息时，有时答复可能是否定的。 　　221、 When the truth is ugly, people try to keep it hidden, because they know if revealed, the damage it will do. So they conceal it within sturdy walls or they place it behind closed doors or they obscure it with clever disguises but truth, no matter how ugly, always emerges. And someone we care about always ends up getting hurt. And someone else will revel in their pain and that's the ugliest truth of all. 　　当真相是丑陋的时候，人们尝试将他们隐藏起来。因为人们知道，真相泄露所带来的伤害是多么严重，所以人们用严实的高墙将其藏匿起来，或者将其关闭在紧缩的门后，或者用聪明的伪装使其变得模糊。但是真相，无论多么丑陋总会浮出水面。那些我们关心的人最终还是会受到伤害，另外一些人会因为别人的伤痛而非常快乐，这才是世界上最丑陋的事实。 　　222、 It's a shocking moment for each of us. That moment we realize we are all alone in this world. The family we take for granted could one day abandon us. The husband we trust so implicitly might betray us. The daughter we love so deeply perhaps won’t return to us. And then we could end up all by ourselves. Of course, some see great value in going it alone. For example.. 　　对我们每个人来说，这都是非常震惊的时刻，令我们意识到我们在这个世界上是寂寞的。我们认为理所应当的家人会突然遗弃我们，我们那么深信的丈夫也许会背叛我们，我们深爱着的女儿也许再也不会回到我们身边，我们也许只能孤独终老。当然，也有人喜欢独身一人，例如…… 　　This is the street where I used to live, and these were the people with whom I shared my life. I met them the day they moved in. And I saw what they brought with them beautiful dreams for the future. And quiet hopes for a better life, not just for themselves, but for their children, too. If I could, would I tell them what lies ahead? Would I warn them of the sorrow and betrayal that lie in store? No. From where I stand now, I see enough of the road to understand how it must be traveled. The trick is to keep moving forward, to let go of the fear and the regret that slow us down and keep us from enjoying a journey that will be over too soon. Yes, there will be unexpected bends in the road, shocking surprises we didn't see coming, but that's really the point, don't ya think? 　　这就是我曾经生活过的街道，这曾是我与其分享生活的人们。从他们搬来的那一天起我们就认识了。我看到了他们所带来的对未来的美好憧憬，对更好的生活的向往，不仅仅为他们自己，还有为了他们的孩子。如果可能的话，我应该告诉他们在前方等待着的是什么吗？我应该警告他们将至的悲伤与背叛吗？不。在我所处于的位置，我自然能明白路应该如何走。秘诀就是一直向前行，放下恐惧和遗憾，因为它们会让我们放慢脚步，阻碍我们享受这转瞬即逝的旅程。是的，前方有无法预料的转折，令人措手不及的惊讶，但是，生活的意思不正在于此吗？